Momentum Leadership Series: Lessons For and From Our Chiefs — Mark Thorpe
Recovering from a life-threatening health challenge propelled me to live more fully and tackle more audacious goals. I stepped into Momentum leadership to make bold changes that flew in the face of the status quo. In doing so, I learned how to declare a vision and let go of the details, and that a little creative destruction can be a good thing.
Two Conversations that Changed My Life
My youngest daughter was caught by her school stealing my cigarettes and smoking. When I berated her, she reminded me that I smoked also. If I wanted her not to smoke, I had to stop smoking myself, as much as I hated to.
Life Lessons I Learned from My Fathers
I was abandoned by my biological father, and rescued by my adopted father. I learned vital life lessons from both of them.
Leading from Authenticity Drives Success
Momentum experience has shown consistently that authenticity is a key ingredient for success as a leader. It occurs only when your vision aligns with your core values; your words and actions are congruent with your vision; and the intended outcome of the endeavor is faithful to your vision. When all three are true for you, you will be more successful in enrolling followers who will implement your vision.
What True Friendship Looks Like
My dear friend is dying. As I devote myself to being there for him in every way I can, I reflect on a lifetime friendship of mutual love, deep respect and a bond that will survive all.
A meditation on missed opportunities
Revisiting the neighborhoods of my youth reminds me of the sacrifices and contributions of my parents’ generation, and how these have endured and changed over the years. I meditate upon the missed opportunities that were given to me by an apparently happy childhood, and upon the possibility of redemption.
How Men Use Commitments and Consequences to Foster Their Growth
Momentum’s men’s teams frequently use commitments, based on values, to support men’s growth to become the best version of themselves. Here we present a tried-and-true set of practices that Momentum teams have been using for more than 30 years.
My Father’s Death Ended a Family Legacy of Brutality and Misogyny
At my father’s death, I reflect on his life and our complicated relationship, marked by our familial legacy of violence, narcissism and misogyny that wounded me deeply. This inspired my quest for my own healing and that of others, to forgive my father, and to end that violent family history.
Missing the Clues Can Cost You Your Marriage
My wife of 13 years abruptly terminated the marriage leaving me feeling betrayed and uncomprehending. I realized the clues had been there all along, just ignored.
To Become a Father, I Learned to Let Go and Trust
All my life, I used clear intent and diligent planning to achieve my goals. They were not working in my struggle to become a father. I learned the power of trust—of faith and surrender.