HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE? About one team meeting per member
WHY DO THIS? Building intimacy, understanding history
WHAT SUPPORT IS NEEDED? The team may be able to make it meaningful on their own, or may need a hero to model the type of questioning that works best.
WHO CAN HELP? NA, team process
WHAT IS THE TEAM’S ROLE? Ask questions to deepen understanding. Do not give advice and avoid asking questions leading to problem solving
WHAT DO I NEED TO KNOW?
The process is stated very simply – “Tell me about your father”. The team leader selects one man per night. It is good to announce the man a week ahead of time, in case he wants to prepare some visual aids. The man can be as deep as he wants.